Somewhere along the way I learned that I should only focus on what is happening in the space of a hula hoop around my body. And that I shouldn't let anyone else into my hula hoop.
Things to remember.
I am working on my own character defects.
I have no idea how to respond to what you just said.
I have enough to deal with figuring out my own life.
I have no extra advice/suggestions to give away.
Why I didn't include you..
the girl was painfully shy. Just the week before I spent so much time trying to help you not take the behaviors of babies from hurting you. I was protecting you as I was sure that your feelings would get hurt by her silence. I have no business projecting how you will feel. It old behavior and it is exhausting for me.
My character defect
wishing you would be different
thinking that if you did as I wanted we both would be happy (not true my advice could be wrong)
micro managing
not believing the red flags...
From now on if someone wants to talk about a friendship...run....the best friendships need no discussion.
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