I struggle with thinking I am responsible for everyone's happiness. And as a result I say yes when I mean no. Then when the asker keeps pushing for more and I finally set a boundary I feel like I failed. Failed them b/c they are not happy, failed me b/c I didn't setup the boundary early enough. And of course I either acted passive agressive or at least didn't really say what the real issue is so instead of the other person owning the bad behavior it is me.
I talked about the issue at my mtg. And it made sense.
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