hmm. I was looking on Sitemeter and it is possible someone from my town is reading this. I swear I put on the privacy button so that my browser is excluded. I need to rethink if I like this writing into the byte world if someone can really read. I liked this just being private but maybe viewed by strangers.
hmmm I need to rethink.
xox WR
I decided to post this. I read it on someone elses blog. I don't want to list the blog but I loved these words. I hate to say this but I sometimes think that only people in AA get this. But this woman talks about drinking wine. I need to get over my AA bigotry....
But this is amazing...I need to do this...
Frienship Debrief - Before you take any steps, you should spend some time thinking about what made you befriend someone that you now need to avoid. Were you unrealistic in your expectations for this person? Did you misjudge the amount of time and energy you would have for new connections in your life? Do you only stay friends with a certain type of person, and you forgot to check whether this person would fit the bill before you built a relationship with them? Did you get secretly mad about something over a long period of time, and wind up needing to dump this person because you failed to have an honest conversation about your needs?Maybe this is something you can fix in the existing relationship. Maybe you just have to start over with someone else. But if you take the time to figure out what went wrong, with any luck, you'll manage this breakup with a little more grace -- and maybe you'll even arrive at some insights that will help you do better with your other friends in the future.
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