Reacting

I need to get better at either not taking the bait or my judgement. I walk around not knowing what is real and what I am misinterpreting. Tonight I was making copies of the tax documents b4 we send them to the accountant. My hubby comes upstairs and in my opinion starts criticizing the way I am doing it. This after lunch when he came downstairs and rolled his eyes at what I was doing. I know I shouldn't let him bother me but I do. And of course since I over react I am always in the wrong. He walks around like the victim. I am the angry one. He is the abused husband. Then I start thinking it is all in my head. He never says he is sorry. It is always me. I do know that I take the bait. I need to stop before I react to him and ask him why he is being negative/an ass whatever. Or maybe he is perfect and I am just a bitch.